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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 09:29

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Does not procrastinate.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What should I do to stop being angered easily?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What's an uncomfortable truth you've learned to accept?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do people hate fat people so much, even people who aren't exactly supermodels themselves? It seems like such a deep, passionate hatred, like they're offended by fat people just existing. Fat people didn't do anything to them, so why hate them?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

That's it for today.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.